You’re a high-achieving woman who has tried therapy, advice, or self-help—but still feel disconnected from your body, your desires, or your partner. You may overthink, intellectualize, or push through emotions, leaving you burnt out, under-pleasured, or emotionally unavailable. Despite your accomplishments and composure, you feel unseen, frustrated, and stuck in patterns that impact your sexual connection and intimacy.

At The Counter Collective, we specialize in therapy for women like you—high-functioning, intellectualizing, and exhausted—who want to reclaim sexual desire, emotional connection, and relational satisfaction.

Signs You Might Benefit from Therapy for Sexual Disconnection

• Feeling emotionally or physically disconnected from your partner

• Difficulty accessing desire or feeling “turned off”

• Overthinking or intellectualizing instead of feeling

• Burnout or stress leaving little energy for intimacy

• Struggling to express needs or set boundaries in your relationship

• Past trauma, stress, or relational patterns interfering with connection

How We Help You Reconnect

We use a trauma-informed, relational, and integrative approach designed for high-achieving women:

• EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing): Process trauma or emotional blocks affecting intimacy

• DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy): Strengthen emotional regulation, presence, and self-compassion

• IFS (Internal Family Systems) & Relational Therapy: Integrate conflicting parts of yourself and repair relational patterns

• Couples & Sexual Connection Work: Rebuild intimacy, communication, and sexual desire with your partner

Through this work, you’ll learn to move out of overthinking, reconnect with your body, regulate emotions, and restore sexual and relational fulfillment.

Who This Is For

• High-achieving women, professional women, or mothers

• Women of color seeking culturally informed therapy

• Women who intellectualize or overthink emotions

• Those struggling with burnout, emotional numbness, or relational disconnection

Take the First Step Toward Reconnection

Sexual disconnection doesn’t have to be permanent. Therapy can help you reconnect to your body, emotions, and partner, even if past therapy hasn’t worked.

Schedule a consultation today to explore trauma-informed, relational therapy designed for high-achieving women who want to feel fully present, grounded, and sexually alive again.